Thursday, January 3, 2013

Keeping the peace.

If ever there was a question I would like answered then it would be how to keep calm when idiots try their utmost to infuriate me.
I know people who have absolutely no hesitation uttering what they can't have any doubt people know are lies and you'd better keep your mouth shut or they'll take you on with everything they've got.
No wonder they rarely leave the safety of their house because they know that elsewhere no one would take their shit.
Atypical case of inferiority complex...but should be infuriating complex.
Actually sad to think that they have few or no true friends and if they do those poor souls are always pushed away in favour of people that would drop them without hesitation.
They always try and force themselves on  the people that have the least value in them precisely because of before mentioned complex.
They have an unsatiable need to proof themselves to those that don't value them.
Like I already mentioned those that do value them get ignored.
It's unfortunately, for them, a game they will NEVER win.
They will always feel inferior and because they push away those that actually care they will always be surrounded by those that don't.
Only cure is for them to realise their issue, but that rarely happens and even if it does it is still a very difficult complex to overcome.
It is always a deeply rooted problem, mostly childhood but can also be due to a trauma.
In some cases a parent with said complex can affect children aswell especially if a single child is highly dependant on the parent.
Even though these people seem to live a normal happy life and it takes a trained eye to recognise the symptoms it's never a easy complex to have to live with.
These people learn to put on a mask to attract the people that feed their needs.
Unfortunately for me I've got a keen eye for reading people.
Tbings like these make me want to shake them and ask them why they can't see what is wrong with them.
They never do and they always think I'm the crazy one.
This is my gift...this is my curse...

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